Have you ever felt stuck in a situation when you struggle to think whether you should say no or yes to an opportunity? If yes, then you should learn the ways to conquer this sort of indecisiveness. You will have to make difficult decisions every now and then. But if you are totally being indecisive, you are going to ruin your personal and professional life.
Beware of indecisiveness!!! It is a silent killer of happiness
One of the most prominent attributes that I have personally seen in unsuccessful people is the inability to make the decision. I am here to provide you some solutions if you are being a constant indecisive person who just mulls over everything and does not move ahead.
It is a fact that staying indecisive is so comfortable and tempting because it is keeping you away from choosing an option that may or may not be good for you in future. Don’t let this miserable discomfort overtake you. You are not going to reach the destination that you set out to. All decisive people get their shit done right away.
Stop oscillating between your options
There comes a time that get to choose between two things and you start moving back and forth. These useless oscillations of mind are the biggest hurdle in the way of achieving powerful decision-making ability. You start considering all the options again and again. You endlessly research online to know which option is going to work for you. Remember that these are very common traits of losers. Mulling over different things and not being able to make any decision is a chronic habit. Be strong and consistent in order to get rid of such habits.
Be the dumbest person in the room
When you are stuck between two things, look for those people who you respect a lot. If there is anyone who you think owes expertise over a particular thing which you are mulling over, consult them. As a matter of fact, you should always surround yourself with such type of people who are more knowledgeable and smarter than you. Don’t let your ego get in your way to success. Seeking the counseling of others is not bad. Put your ego aside and go for any possible positive advice you may get
Get rid of the sustained fear of making the wrong decision
You may get afraid of what may happen in the future. You should always remember the fact that no matter how much efforts you put, you will never be able to predict the future. At the end of the day, you will get to know what is right for you. You may be afraid of change or being responsible for anything that does not work out. The inconsistent fear is the whole notion which is not letting you overcome your indecisiveness.
Figure out what makes you indecisive
You should know whether you are choosing safety or comfort or you are just afraid of entering into uncomfortable territory.
In the end, I would like you to remind that you are the CEO of your life and you have total control over your life. Just make a decision and put all efforts to make it right.